For Men

Do you think she's pregnant?

You are not alone in this situation. The two of you can get through this. She needs you now more than ever.  t’s vital that you provide her with the support she needs--emotionally and physically. Here are some tips to help you do this.

What to do:

• Talk with her and listen to her. Keep the lines of communication open between the two of you at all times. DO NOT close yourself off emotionally; this situation is not just about you!
• Be there for her. She needs you now more than ever.
• Talk with the people who care. In addition to keeping the lines of communication open between the two of you, it’s important to discuss the situation with parents and others who will be directly affected. Keeping this a secret will only add to the stress – yours and hers.
• Educate yourself. Collect information, and seek advice from people you trust.
• Be honest with her and yourself. Own and share your feelings. It will help her to know that you share the same concerns. You’ll be surprised at what you learn about yourself, and you’ll be proud that you're standing tall together!

What Not To Do:

• Don’t run from your responsibilities. The more you try to avoid this situation, the harder things will get for the three of you--now and forever.
• Don’t pressure her to do what you want. You both need to work together at all times. You're a team.
• Don't stop communicating with her. Express your feelings and add your input whenever it’s needed.